Accommodation

Tips for Harmonious Living

• If bills are not included in the rent then please make sure costs are shared between you. Tenants of a property are jointly responsible for the utility bills. The names of all tenants in the property should be given to the utility companies as soon as you move in.
  
  
• If you have use of a house telephone then make sure everyone’s name is given to the phone provider, so one person is not left responsible for sorting out the cost of the phone calls. Try and account for your calls as best you can and make sure you get an itemised bill showing all phone calls made. If there are a few stray numbers left over that no-one admits to calling then agree to split the cost between everyone in the house.
  
  
• Talk to your house-mate if there is a problem before you both get angry and upset.
  
  
• Remain calm and friendly. Do not threaten to retaliate or wait until you are end of your tether. Do not be embarrassed to say how much the problem has upset you or be afraid to make your views clear.
  
  
• Share the chores! You are all responsible for the cleaning of the communal areas in your house. All tenants can have their deposits deducted if properties are left unclean at the end of the tenancy.
  
  
• Think about having a house meeting. Having everyone together at one time is a good idea to help restore communication and sort out any problems.
  
  
• Give yourselves time to get to know each other and consider others feelings. Living together for the first time can be strange for everyone.
  
  
• All households will suffer the normal stresses and strains of people living together. People have different views about levels, expectations and different lifestyles. If you are a good communicator and are willing to listen, respect and compromise then the chances are you will live in a happy household.